Hello Reader
I trust you are doing well.
I'm very excited to share that the Everyday Mentor YouTube channel is just weeks away from launching!
The first few episodes have been recorded, and it won't be long until those episodes begin dropping weekly. Of course, I will keep you posted regarding our 'go live' date.
I am hopeful that our recent min-series on 'Getting Unstuck > Getting growing > Getting Upgraded' was immensely helpful and encouraging to you.
I especially hope that it ignited in you the belief that those exact 3 outcomes and corresponding transformation are possible for you.
With the reminder of that mini-series at front of mind, I am excited to share that very soon I will be opening up a heavily discounted pre-sale opportunity only available to subscribers, for my most significant training program I have ever constructed. The filming has concluded, and the final touches are being put on the training course. It will go live in September, and will be a life-changing opportunity for people to experience a true transformation in how they live their life.
I guarantee that participants will go from feeling stuck and burdened by past traumas to achieving real personal growth and an upgraded quality of life, enabling them to thrive in their careers and relationships.
It's a bold claim I realise. However, I have been helping people achieve this exact result for decades. I know I can help you experience it also.
The program will include;
- A comprehensive training course delivered online
- An exclusive weekly coaching invitation to apply everything learned
- An exclusive space reserved in members only community online
More info about this opportunity coming soon . . .
"Discerning the Traits of A Healthy Relationship"
Despite the truth that we all exist in many different kinds of relationships, this article today is advice that can serve you well in each one of them, whether you apply it to family, friends or colleagues.
I want to place a disproportionate emphasis on the word 'Discerning'
Far too many people get themselves involved in relationships with other people that are simply not good for them. It's because they lack discernment regarding relationship selection. You don't get to choose all of your relationships in life (think immediate family members), however when you do, you need to do it wisely.
The truth is that your relationship selection discernment can get a boost even just from acknowledging to yourself that you need to do better in this discipline. That acknowledgment alone can open your mind and heart to a new day of learning and acquiring better skills in this vital part of your life.
Relationships are so central to how we experience the journey of life. The quality of our relationships will always be a huge determinant in the quality of our own existence, and how we describe the status of how life is going for us in any given moment.
Therefore choose wisely. Choose better. Choose with strategic intention in mind.
You need to play an active role in protecting yourself from unhealthy relationships whenever possible.
In fact, this is one of the most important keys to succeeding in your relationships with others.
Accept the truth that some people are just plain bad for you! Learn to avoid including them in your life. At the very least, they should not be allowed to get remotely close to your 'inner circle'
Auditing your relationships regularly, is not offensive or wrong. It's smart. It's powerful. It's necessary!
There is nothing wrong with having compassion for struggling people, and so I am not saying to delete that kind of relationship from your life.
However, you cannot help them from a place of your own personal weakness. Get strong first, and then you will be better positioned for helping others. Realise that some people will not allow themselves to be helped, even when they really need it. Stop wasting your time here. You cannot help this kind of person (no matter how good you are)
Let's take a closer look at some of the healthy traits that we should be looking out for in other people that we are in relationship with. These traits form the backbone of our auditing / selection mechanism. If these traits aren't present in the people you're connected to, then they shouldn't be present in your life;
- Aligned life purpose
- Common recreational interest
- Celebrates you when you win
- Commiserates with you when you lose
- Reliable
- Generous
- Forgiving
- Speaks honestly / straight to you, even when uncomfortable
- Loves your family
- Happily opens doors of opportunity for you
- Speaks positively about you in front of others
- Steady and predictable through different life seasons
You don't need to choose relationships exclusively with people who have all of these traits activated in their life. However, use them as an observational guide. The more of these traits, the better.
I am here to help you!
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Best Regards Always!
Andrew